What Are Type You As A Parent

ON generally there are 3 kinds foster the type of pattern, ie, authoritarian, permissive, and democratic. In the foster authoritarian, orangtualah that determine everything. Parents assume that all they say is the most correct and good. Children were considered not know anything. Parents never encourage children to be independent and to take decisions related to the actions of the children. Parents just say what should not and do not explain why it should not be done.

Foster a permissive patterns tend to let children develop by itself. Parents do not give signs, any signs to the children. That there are only signs of environmental regulations. Meanwhile, foster democratic patterns of use explanation why something can not be done. Parents open to discussions with the children. Parents see children as individuals who should be heard, respected, and given the opportunity.

From the third pattern, foster them, according to psychologist Thank Sigit Purnomo Sidi, is the ideal blend was so parents can know when to let the children behave when democratic, and when prerogative must use their rights as parents. For example, children still insists that doing something wrong, when parents already know and give explained.

Now, when the parents can not authoritarian because the children know the dangers that faced when he will do it. "The merit of knowledge and experience of parents is expected to lead and guide their children," he said.

Moreover, in the era now the responsibility of parents to become far more weight. Parents should learn more, read, hear and see. If not, will lag from the children. Therefore, Step ask parents to really look to the future of education in the design so that children can be more wise.

"Do not be too amazed by advances in technology to forget that children are not the only people who have a mind, but also feelings," said Step. Parents need to develop all aspects of development so that children can become a strong personal one, both in terms of intellectual, emotional, and social.