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IN a relationship, ideally there is a balance of power. Unfortunately, this ideal is often not realize. Consequently, the dominant will not always feel resentful and looking for ways to reply (or were not). The dominant party did not complain because they rarely feel too much responsibility and bear the burden is not balanced.

According to psychologist and author book Overcoming Relationship Impasses, Barry L Duncan Psy.D and Joseph W Rock Psy D, easy tricks to solve this problem is dominated by the type of the pair. For example:

Couples critic
Features: Depending on your needs and as a partner to do anything. However, he did not want to lose power and try to wrest back with criticize what you do.
You should:
- Agree with the word pairs, but not in the form of censure attitude.
- No need to explain or defend themselves.
- Translate the message with the criticism stop doing what he critiques. For example, with said, "You correct. I always disturb you. If so, tomorrow I will start looking for their own occupation." In this way, the pair will launch stop criticism. Or even better, he felt a criticism.

Couples dominant
Features: Controlling everything. It makes relationships such as parents and children. He parents and your children. Although he was much better and educate with love, you will not feel helpless, despair and hatred in the fall. Every effort to oppose his dominate even protest will be heard as a small child.
You should:
- Make the things you want to do and be independent. If the pair criticize, that you receive only one or misrepresentation. However, continue to do what you believe is correct and good.
- Use the answers to constructive criticism imprudence of the pair, slovenly, or your mistakes. Perhaps the attitude was the pairing of sorts and felt his life more difficult. This is directly reveal exasperation and regret you. This way you also tell couples are actually not necessarily that he can dominate on this relationship.

No pair Literary
Features: Always quiet. You often with attitudes that do not want to talk about anything.
You should:
- Change strategy. If during this trying hard to make you talk, reduce the conversation. You do not need to strive to maintain or start a discussion. And, if there is discussion, said a short course. This is not only eliminate tension, but also to reverse the tension on the pair. You will feel more empowered and power over him.
- Translate the silence positively. For example, you and your partner still feel close although not talk any time. Assuming only silence pair bookmarks good relations only.
- Reduce the focus on the relationship and make yourself happy. If you do things for yourself, you do not need the attention of other people.

Couples complainer
Features: Continuing to reveal the words that sound sad or negative thinking. You feel very disturbed with the complaint-keluhannya. You feel frustrated because they have been trying to help, but no results.
You should:
- Listen to his complain.
- From avoid, better push his speech.
- Disclose fairly negative response about the topic that you made partner. Do not give any positive response. Then, make him complain all the time. This method gives you paired the complainer is the freedom to choose to discuss other matters and feeling-a feeling positive.

Couples prosecutor
Features: A cast accusations that have not necessarily correct. Can be, you had to lie so that he no longer believe in you.
You should:
- Do not explain or defend themselves. A very simple solution to this situation do not make effective heats. The pair will be difficult to quarrel or argue with you that would not rebut. You do not appear to be guilty because too many refutes
- No provocated. Accusations are often the initial fracas. If you don't provocated, accusations will not stop and eventually killed.
- Take one step more advanced and give him unsafety feeling in your partner who accuse it. For example, "You though I fear?!" or "You worry no longer attract money," or "You do not feel confident with my love?"